Tuesday, July 08, 2008

恋人未满

Talked to a good friend recently regarding an issue of getting into a relationship. Sometimes, due to different parties having totally different mentality, things don't work like a simple arithmetic equation.

The song of " 恋人未满 " was written from the perspective of young lady who was in the midst of falling in love. She was anxious about why the guy had not taken the appropriate actions to show his love for her. If he did, he would be able to bring their relationship to the next level. From the song, the girl was puzzled as to why they were already so close and yet failed to progress to the next stage. She was anxious about him, yet she could only pray that he quickly take the appropriate actions. However, not having the right attitude in the courtship would mean that its all over for them. In fact, from the lyrics, we can tell that both parties were anxious about each other, but some psychological barrier seem to be in their way. The girl was frustrated and seemingly complained about the lack of courage of the guy.

From the perspective of women, this song can be very right. No doubt, guys should always take the initiative. However, as the Chinese saying goes, 当局者迷, even though the guy can feel very happy with the girl and likes the girl, but he can be a piece of wooden block. The girl interested can feel that she has told the biggest hint which is almost as good as telling him straight in the face( seriously most of the time, its juz something very vague ) while he still doesn't understand a thing. The guy, being confused and unsure of the situation, how is he going to be sure of his own decision and garner enough courage to show his love for the girl? Maybe there are some unknown qualms in him not taking the actions, so it shouldn't be responsibility on one side. Ladies, if u really like someone, u shouldn't juz wait for a response from him. Maybe he needs a helping hand, and its time for u to do something for him.

So let this song be a negative illustration. Its on the 2nd track.

=D

歌手:she 专辑:女生宿舍

[ti:恋人未满]

[al:女生宿舍]


she
恋人未满
为什么只和你能聊一整夜
为什么才道别就又想再见面
在朋友里面就数你最特别
总让我觉得很亲很贴
为什么你在意谁陪我逛街
为什么你担心谁对我放电
你说你对我
比别人多一些
却又不说是多哪一些
友达以上
恋人未满
甜蜜心烦
愉悦混乱
我们以后
会变怎样
我迫不及待想知道答案
再靠近一点点
就让你牵手
再勇敢一点点
我就跟你走
你还等什么
时间已经不多
再下去
只好只做朋友
再向前一点点
我就会点头
再冲动一点点
我就不闪躲
不过三个字
别犹豫这么久
只要你说出口
你就能拥有我
为什么你寂寞只想要我陪
为什么我难过只肯让你安慰
我们心里面
明明都有感觉
为什么不敢面对
我不相信
都动了感情却到不了爱情
那么贴心却进不了心底
你能不能快一点决定
对我说我爱你

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