Back..

Haha, hi pple i m back since i last blogged and thats like very very long ago. Swee said he nearly deleted my link from his blog and i almost encouraged him to do so. Anyway, really very busy and lazy to blog these few days or these few months to be precise. Think i m really in no mood to think of something to write and maybe i will just post something to share with u all and hope that it can offer some food for thought.

I found this story in a blog. Found it nice. This story is dedicated to those whose guilt become the burden to move on. May you all grow in peace and acceptance as what you are :). Life is not totally useless if one fails exams, makes mistakes, etc. Best wishes!
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An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots , each hung on the ends of a pole , which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water , at the end of the long walk from the stream to the house , the cracked pot arrived only half full.For a full two years this went on daily , with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water. Of course , the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection , and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure , it spoke to the woman one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of myself , because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house."The old woman smiled , "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path , but not on the other pot's side?" "That's because I have always known about your flaw , so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path , and every day while we walk back , you water them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are , there would not be this beauty to grace the house."Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.